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a new life

saturday, 4/24/2004

Come gather 'round people
Wherever you roam
And admit that the waters
Around you have grown
And accept it that soon
You'll be drenched to the bone.
If your time to you
Is worth savin'
Then you better start swimmin'
Or you'll sink like a stone
For the times they are a-changin'.

Come writers and critics
Who prophesize with your pen
And keep your eyes wide
The chance won't come again
And don't speak too soon
For the wheel's still in spin
And there's no tellin' who
That it's namin'.
For the loser now
Will be later to win

For the times they are a-changin'.

Come senators, congressmen
Please heed the call
Don't stand in the doorway
Don't block up the hall
For he that gets hurt
Will be he who has stalled
There's a battle outside
And it is ragin'.
It'll soon shake your windows
And rattle your walls
For the times they are a-changin'.

Come mothers and fathers
Throughout the land
And don't criticize
What you can't understand
Your sons and your daughters
Are beyond your command
Your old road is
Rapidly agin'.
Please get out of the new one
If you can't lend your hand
For the times they are a-changin'.

The line it is drawn
The curse it is cast
The slow one now
Will later be fast
As the present now
Will later be past
The order is
Rapidly fadin'.
And the first one now
Will later be last
For the times they are a-changin'.

Bob Dylan, 1964

I've completed the first week of my new life. Yes, I'm working again.

I'm just thrilled with everything about my new job; location, environment, coworkers, supervisor, and assignment. Best of all, after finishing a long day of meetings on Thursday, meeting all sorts of new people, my supervisor pulled me aside to tell me that they were aware of my past - in fact they found those skeletons that were rattling around my closet before making me an offer, and they just didn't care. Instead, they were delighted to have me join them because of my talent and experience.  Apparently, everyone they contacted who knew me spoke highly of me. My thanks to you, whomever you are.

This was my best-case scenario, since it lifts a burden of secrecy from us all. It was already getting a little uncomfortable being unable to talk about some parts of my past. There may be some awkward moments to come, but I'm confident everything is going to turn out well now.

Maybe trying to live a life with honor and integrity really is worth it after all.

busy, busy

sunday, 4/18/2004

I haven't set aside much time to write lately; too many other things to do. I returned from Houston Wednesday afternoon after getting my business taken care of there, then spent the rest of the week building a floating dock that has been on the schedule of lake improvements for awhile. M and I almost finished it yesterday, but we were a few boards short. It was a good mental challenge to figure out how to move the frame of the thing from land into the water on Friday by myself, using just simple tools. Have to keep my problem solving skills sharp so I can make money with them again some day.

Two of my aunts were injured in an automobile accident on Friday, so M and I visited them in the hospital yesterday evening. They're both over 80 years old and sustained serious injuries, but they have the kind of toughness it takes to heal themselves, and they have loving children and grandchildren, nieces, nephews, siblings, cousins, etc. to encourage them along the way.

I'm off to Houston again today and will likely be there all week. Perhaps I'll have some good news to write about  soon.

first run

sunday, 4/11/2004

The weather was nice enough that the kids got to water ski on Friday and Saturday. The water really isn't bad after the initial shock. We did attract a few puzzled looks from the other boaters and bank-sitters. We've always let the weather dictate the start of the season for water sports, not the calendar.

We had a nice chat with our neighbors there on the bayou yesterday afternoon, the ones who are building an elevator to get down the steep hill from their house to the water. I told him I had been watching with great interest, since the workings of mechanical contraptions have been my business for so long. We happened to see them testing the  thing while sitting in the boat not long ago, and when I saw that the design included counterweights, just like a store-bought elevator, I knew that this was not the work of a novice. Yesterday he told us that he was a maintenance supervisor at a plant in the area (click!), and he had taught himself to weld just for this project. He is already thinking about his next project, a concrete retaining wall, so we talked about different techniques that could be used to minimize the cost. I observed that it seems like we either have enough time or enough money to do ambitious projects, but seldom both.

Actually, many of the folks who own property there on the lake, particularly the folks who live there or not far away, are do-it-yourselfers as well. Someone is always building something, often unique and interesting. It is a microcosm of ingenuity and learning from one another, like a remnant of some bygone era. There is something very special about a community where neighbors still help one another, sharing their ideas, tools and sweat freely; where a handshake is as good as a signed contract. Most of all it is a place where one's character is still the most valuable thing they own. 

I'm off to the city this afternoon, after Easter dinner, probably for the rest of the week. The mental shift is always a bit disconcerting.

good friday

friday, 4/9/2004

It appears I will be traveling again to the Houston area next week. Interesting things may be a-brewin'. Best to wait and see though; hold cards close to the vest and all that.

Two of the kids should be in for Easter weekend. Time for the first water-ski run of the season maybe. The water really isn't bad as long as it's a warm day.

feeling good

sunday, 4/4/2004

My trip to Philadelphia this week went OK. I like to travel early, so my journey started when I left the house at 5 AM. I had my rental car and was checked into my hotel by 2 PM, leaving some time for adventure. "What does one do with a few hours in the city of brotherly love?," I asked, and I decided on seeing the historic sites in the city center.

Figuring out the freeways and how to get from one place to another wasn't as easy as I thought, and I ended up on a bridge to Camden, New Jersey on my first attempt.  I drove several miles before I could find a place to turn around, and even then I had to figure out how to do it through back streets, since left turns were not allowed. I suppose that helps traffic keep flowing on busy highways, but it was a first for me. I gladly paid the $3 toll to escape back across the Delaware River to Pennsylvania, where they still allow left turns.

It took quite awhile to find a place to park, in spite of following the signs. The entrance to an underground parking garage near the Independence National Historic Park was very well hidden for a country bumpkin like me. I had to park on the street temporarily and ask someone, and she actually walked with me to the entrance to show me. Very kind of her. I would discover later that my two hours of parking would cost $10. Welcome to the city!

The first step when visiting the Park is to go through a security screening every bit as intense as an airport; metal detectors, searches of packs and purses, X-rays, and all that. The liberty bell is in a building of its own, but you can get close enough to almost touch it. And no, they haven't fixed that crack yet.

Next was a stroll through Congress Hall, which served as the home of both the Pennsylvania State Legislature and the fledgling United States Congress for several years. Such a simple building compared to what would come later in the marble monstrosities of Washington, D.C..

The guided tour through Independence Hall was the highlight of the trip.  As I stood there in the room where both the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution were debated, finalized, and ultimately signed, I became lost in wonder at the brilliance, energy and courage of all those standard bearers of the Enlightenment, Thomas Jefferson, Tom Paine, Ben Franklin, John Adams, and all of the many others. What masterpieces of hope for humanity they created. When the tour group began filing out, I wakened from my reverie and wiped the tears from my cheeks. I walked silently out, the last to leave.

The job interview on Tuesday seemed to go alright. I had a delightful trip back to the hotel with a woman from the HR department in her well used mini-van, a native of Philly who wouldn't dream of living anywhere else. If I had any concerns about the friendliness of big city northeasterners, they were dispelled in that 30 minute ride.

My journey home began once again at 5 AM in a cold drizzle.  How wonderful to step off the plane into warm sunshine once again.

The weather here for the weekend has turned out better than expected, so M and I spent yesterday afternoon enjoying the sun at the lake. We decided to take a ride in the little  flat bottom boat, but I misjudged the amount of fuel in the tank.  We got about 3 miles upstream and the motor sputtered and died. Nothing but fumes left.

I wasn't worried, since I knew someone would come by and offer to assist eventually, but we began paddling back nonetheless. Within ten or fifteen minutes, a fisherman and his wife came by and asked if we needed a tow, and we gladly accepted. When we finally reached our boathouse, they cast us off and we thanked them for their help. We capped off the afternoon with a catfish dinner and drove home with the top down.

Being fiercely independent by nature, it has taken me many years to realize that allowing someone to do a good deed for you is one of the best gifts you can ever give. And of course being the doer of the good deed brings fulfillment that cannot be matched. I think this is known as a win-win proposition.

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